{"id":126,"date":"2022-03-31T15:49:15","date_gmt":"2022-03-31T15:49:15","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/wellbut.com\/?p=126"},"modified":"2022-03-31T15:49:16","modified_gmt":"2022-03-31T15:49:16","slug":"well-but-its-healthier-to-just-walk-away","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/wellbut.com\/index.php\/2022\/03\/31\/well-but-its-healthier-to-just-walk-away\/","title":{"rendered":"Well but\u2026 It&#8217;s healthier to just walk away"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>I&#8217;m going to piggyback this post on the one I wrote a while back about social media not just affecting girls or young people negatively but everybody. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I gave up on Twitter in January or February of 2020. I rarely used it an was mostly disgusted by what I saw of it. Facebook on the other hand was a different story. I&#8217;d made noise about dumping Facebook at that time too but always found a reason to return. Facebook is a good way of connecting with people. It&#8217;s also a great way to burn bridges and ruin friendships when the inevitable political disagreements arise. Sitting at a computer, typing responses to posts made by other people with whom you disagree is like having the <a href=\"https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Coprolalia\" title=\"coprolalia portion Tourette syndrome.\">coprolalia portion Tourette syndrome.<\/a> The other choice is to swallow the bitterness and bile to keep from alienating people who are at least nominal friends. The result from either response is not good.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It was mid-March of this year when the combination of negative responses and swallowed responses got to be too much and I had a small mental and emotional break. It was also at that time when I finally (mostly) gave up on Facebook. I didn&#8217;t completely delete my account (it would take too much work to restore it should I find reason to return) but I suspended it. I can honestly say that my mental and emotional health has improved significantly as a result. Oh, I still have accounts with several social media outlets but I never use any save YouTube and that&#8217;s assuming YouTube is considered social media. I even have Instagram but I&#8217;ve used that maybe half a dozen times ever. I can say that ditching social media was one of the best things I&#8217;ve ever done.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I&#8217;m going to piggyback this post on the one I wrote a while back about social media not just affecting girls or young people negatively but everybody. I gave up on Twitter in January or February of 2020. I rarely used it an was mostly disgusted by what I saw [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-126","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/wellbut.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/126","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/wellbut.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/wellbut.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wellbut.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wellbut.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=126"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/wellbut.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/126\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":127,"href":"https:\/\/wellbut.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/126\/revisions\/127"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/wellbut.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=126"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wellbut.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=126"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wellbut.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=126"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}